
The Calling Is Real: How to Know When It's Time to Lead, Speak, and Serve
Decode divine timing and say yes to the assignment in your life.
You feel it stirring within you. A persistent nudge that awakens you in quiet moments.
A vision that refuses to fade despite your attempts to dismiss it. The subtle knowledge that you are meant for something more.
Something significant. Something that serves beyond yourself.
This calling, divine appointment, arrives with perfect timing, though rarely on our preferred schedule.
As someone who has guided countless people through their journeys of purpose discovery, I've witnessed the unmistakable signs that indicate when your moment has arrived to step forward as a leader, a speaker, a servant to your community and beyond.

The Whisper That Grows Louder
Your calling begins as a whisper, easily dismissed amid life's constant demands. Yet unlike random thoughts that drift away, this whisper returns.
It grows more insistent with time.
"What if I spoke those words of encouragement to that struggling young person?"
"What if my story could help others navigate their darkest moments?"
"What if my unique perspective could transform how people view their challenges?"
These questions represent the early stages of your calling's emergence.
They persist because they originate from a place deeper than mere ambition or fleeting interest.
When did you first notice this whisper in your own life? Can you trace its presence across your journey, growing gradually more defined with each passing year?

Confirmation Through Convergence
When your calling truly manifests, you'll notice a fascinating pattern of convergence.
Seemingly unrelated elements of your life suddenly align with striking precision.
Your past struggles reveal themselves as preparation. Your unique talents find their perfect application. Unexpected doors open.
People appear who recognise what you carry before you fully see it yourself.
This convergence feels both miraculous and profoundly practical. It carries a sense of divine orchestration while revealing the logical pathway forward.
A school principal reaches out, seeking someone to speak about resilience to struggling students, precisely when you've been contemplating sharing your journey of overcoming adversity.
A church organisation seeks guidance on emotional wellbeing programs, just as you've gathered insights on spiritual growth through difficult seasons.
A community group requires leadership during transition, drawing upon the exact skills your life experiences have cultivated within you.
These moments of convergence serve as confirmation. They validate that inner knowing that has been growing within you.
What patterns of convergence have appeared in your recent experience? Which "coincidences" might actually serve as signposts pointing toward your calling?

The Beautiful Burden
True callings arrive with a distinctive weight, what we might call a beautiful burden.
This paradoxical experience combines deep fulfilment with profound responsibility.
You feel simultaneously energised and sobered by what lies before you.
This beautiful burden distinguishes authentic calling from mere career opportunities or passing interests.
It awakens your awareness that lives may truly change through your willingness to step forward and serve.
When considering your potential role as a leadership development speaker, you recognise both the privilege and responsibility of shaping emerging leaders.
As you contemplate becoming a mental health speaker for schools, you understand the sacred trust involved in addressing young minds during their formative years.
When exploring your place as an inspirational keynote speaker, you grasp that your words might become turning points in someone's journey.
This weight feels different from anxiety or fear of failure. It stems from reverence for the assignment placed upon your life and recognition of its potential impact.
Have you experienced this beautiful burden regarding a particular area of service? How does it differ from normal concerns about taking on new challenges?

Divine Timing Versus Personal Timing
We live in a culture obsessed with urgency and immediate action. Yet divine appointments operate on a different timeline altogether.
Your calling emerges precisely when needed, both for others and for your own readiness to fulfil it.
Consider this truth: many spiritual leaders throughout history spent decades in preparation before their moments of greatest impact.
Their wilderness seasons weren't delays but essential preparation for the weight of responsibility they would eventually carry.
The purpose-driven leadership that transforms organisations and communities requires both innate gifting and earned wisdom.
The latter comes only through lived experience and often through seasons of waiting.
The corporate motivational speaker who moves audiences deeply typically draws from wells dug during personal drought.
The guest speaker for church events who brings authentic revelation has usually weathered seasons of doubt and questioning.
The inspirational church speaker whose words resonate with profound truth has often walked through valleys where truth was tested and refined.
Your current season, whether bright with opportunity or seemingly dormant, serves a crucial purpose in the unfolding of your calling.
Trust the divine timing that orchestrates your journey with perfect precision.
What season do you currently occupy? How might this precise moment be preparing you for what lies ahead?

The Unmistakable Signs of Readiness
While each journey unfolds uniquely, certain indicators consistently mark the moment when it's time to step forward into your calling as a leader, speaker, or servant.
Internal Clarity Emerges
Confusion gives way to conviction. Questions that once circled endlessly find resolution.
You see with increasing clarity both the why and how of your purpose.
This clarity feels settled and grounded, distinct from momentary inspiration or emotional highs.
It withstands questioning and grows stronger through thoughtful examination.
Others Recognise What You Carry
People begin acknowledging gifts and capacities within you, often before you fully embrace them yourself.
Their recognition comes unprompted, from diverse sources, and with remarkable consistency.
"You should really speak about your journey."
"Have you considered sharing these insights more widely?"
"Your perspective on this would help so many people."
When multiple voices from different contexts highlight the same calling, pay attention. The divine often speaks first through community.
Doors Open Without Forcing
Opportunities aligned with your purpose begin appearing naturally. While effort and initiative remain necessary, you notice a surprising ease in certain directions.
Connections form. Resources appear. Invitations arrive that perfectly match your emerging vision.
This doesn't mean absence of obstacles, meaningful callings always face resistance.
Rather, you experience sufficient provision for each step forward.
Your Story Finds Its Purpose
Perhaps most powerful among the signs: you begin understanding how your personal journey, including every triumph and struggle, has prepared you uniquely for this work.
Your experiences with adversity position you to serve as an overcoming adversity speaker.
Your journey through emotional challenges equips you for workplace wellbeing presentations.
Your spiritual path prepares you for roles as a spiritual keynote speaker or leader of personal growth events.
Nothing wasted. Everything is purposeful. Your entire narrative suddenly reveals its cohesive design.
When these signs converge, the moment has arrived to say "yes" to the assignment in your life.
Where do you see these signs appearing in your current experience? Which ones resonate most strongly with your journey?

Stepping Forward: Practical Wisdom for Your Journey
As you respond to your calling, certain principles will sustain you through both the triumphs and challenges ahead:
Embrace Gradual Unfolding
Your calling reveals itself progressively, one step illuminated at a time. Remain faithful to what you currently see while staying receptive to evolving clarity.
The path of a trauma-informed speaker begins with sharing authentically in small groups before addressing larger audiences.
The journey toward becoming a spiritual mentoring figure for young people starts with investing deeply in just a few lives.
Cultivate Both Courage and Humility
Stepping into leadership, speaking, or service requires courage, the willingness to be seen, heard, and potentially misunderstood.
Yet this courage must balance with genuine humility that recognises the sacred trust placed in your hands.
The most impactful self-leadership workshops flow from facilitators who embody both bold conviction and learner's humility.
The most transformative school wellbeing programs emerge from presenters who combine confidence with openness to growth.
Trust Your Unique Expression
While learning from others with similar callings provides valuable guidance, your greatest impact comes through authentic expression of your distinct voice and perspective.
Trust that the specific flavour of your calling, your particular blend of experiences, insights, and delivery, meets needs that no one else can address in quite the same way.
Remember Who You Serve
Keep your focus firmly on those your calling exists to serve. When challenges arise or recognition comes, this service-minded orientation will ground and direct you.
Whether you find yourself leading staff development keynotes, guiding inner healing sessions at retreats, or delivering powerful stories of overcoming hardship, remember that your calling exists to meet real needs in real lives.
Continue Your Own Growth Journey
Those called to guide others must remain committed to their own ongoing transformation.
The depth from which you serve others can never exceed the depth of your personal development.
How might you structure regular practices that ensure your continued growth in the areas where you're called to lead others?

Your Next Faithful Step
Perhaps you've recognised through these words that your calling stands before you now, awaiting your response.
The divine timing has arrived, and the assignment on your life seeks your "yes."
Or perhaps you sense the early stirrings of purpose, the whisper still forming into clear direction.
Wherever you find yourself on this journey, I invite you to take one definitive step forward today.
For some, that step involves formally launching a speaking ministry or leadership initiative that's been forming in your heart.
For others, it means seeking mentorship from someone already walking a similar path.
For still others, it means downloading our free guide, "Reignite Your Life's Inspiration," which has helped countless people clarify their unique calling and next steps.
Whatever your current placement on this journey, remember this truth: The world needs what only you can offer.
Your experiences, perspective, wisdom, and voice carry healing and transformation for specific people who will receive it from no other source.
Your calling is real. Your timing is divine. Your "yes" changes everything, for you and for those waiting to be touched by the unique assignment in your life.
Morris Lothian serves as an inspirational keynote speaker, mental health advocate for schools and organisations, and guide for those discovering their purpose through life's challenges.
To explore how Morris can serve your church, school, or organisation through speaking engagements or workshops, or to download the free "Reignite Your Life's Inspiration" guide, visit morristheconnector.com today.